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Pete Sampras's avatar

Thanks! I needed the comment about that 4 kid envy! .. I have 6 kids, and will be home H1 with the 1yr old.. in the middle of it all, it's easy to lose sight of what you described, the bright side of having (many) kids.

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PartyMarty:)'s avatar

I'm single and just went 38. By personality a lone wolf, always have been. In the last few years the impact of living alone hits harder with each year. If you're younger, in your 20s or just went 30, time to get a partner. Don't overthink what freedoms you will loose. I have them all and they don't matter when you see your peers carrying their kids around. Then you know you're a failure. Even if having a family was never your objective you will feel that way, its biologically imprinted. And instead of having time with your kid, actually you will start to procrastinate or work even more because you don't know what to do else.

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